To talk or not to talk.........

It's amazing how some people always say that honesty is the best policy and that we should 'get it off our chest' by voicing our frustrations. But sometimes, don't you come across certain people and think ' just shut the **** up!'.

to talk or not to talk..........the million dollar question. I'm sure that around the world, millions of men are wishing that their other halves would just take pity and TELL them what the problem is, instead of making them figure it out themselves, while they stew and bubble away, preparing for total meltdown.

and then, there's the people who know other people that just will not shut up and babble away, expressing every thought and feeling!! i mean, get a grip!!! and not to forget those who have no tact whatsoever in their entire body and just blurt out what's in their minds. sigh, brain before mouth dearie. think about it first, then let it out. it's not rocket science.

I suppose the only solution is to accept the fact that certain situations call for different solutions. we need to know when to talk and when to listen. we need to accept the fact that our actions will have consequences and affect the people around us.

so for all those people out there, take a good look around u and see if ur unwillingness to voice ur frustrations is hurting those around you. and for those who share too much, learn when to just listen to others. u'll be surprised at what you hear.